About Us
Christ-Centered Conciliators Restoring Relationships
Christ-Centered Conciliators – A Biblical Alternative to Christian Counseling
At Something’s Got to Change, our team of Christ-centered conciliators supports individuals, spouses, families, and churches who are seeking restoration through biblically grounded resolution in Fairfax, VA.
Many who visit us are looking for Christian marriage counseling or a Christian counselor—but instead, they find something deeply transformative.
What Makes Conciliation Different from Christian Counseling?
While we are not licensed counselors or therapists, our trained conciliators offer a relational and spiritual approach centered on Scripture, not psychology.
Through Christ-centered conciliation, we guide people through interpersonal challenges with truth, humility, and grace. Our process addresses the root issues—often spiritual in nature—and helps move people toward lasting peace, forgiveness, and unity in Christ.
We don’t offer therapy. We offer biblical conciliation, a ministry of reconciliation built on Gospel truth.
Vision, Mission & Values
Welcome to a place where healing and reconciliation are at the forefront of everything we do. Our approach, deeply rooted in faith and compassion, is dedicated to guiding individuals through the complexities of relationships and conflicts. With a focus on holistic solutions and a deep respect for each person’s journey, we are committed to being a source of hope and guidance in challenging times. Join us as we embark on a path of restoration and peace, inspired by enduring values and a heart for service.
“All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ…” – 2 Corinthians 5:18
Here’s what drives our work at Something’s Got to Change:
Our Vision
Our vision is to see relationships transformed and conflicts resolved through Christ-centered conciliation. We aspire to be a beacon of hope and guidance for those struggling with relationship challenges, helping them to find peace, flourish, and be restored through God’s love and wisdom.
Our Mission
Our mission is to provide comprehensive, biblically grounded conciliation services that address the root causes of conflict. By combining compassionate guidance with practical conflict resolution strategies, we aim to empower individuals to find lasting solutions and achieve reconciliation in their personal and communal relationships
Commitment to God
We are steadfast in our dedication to God’s teachings and principles. Our work is a reflection of our faith, guided by the wisdom and love exemplified in the Bible. We believe that true healing and reconciliation come through following God’s path, and we commit to honoring His Word and glorifying Him in every aspect of our service.
Commitment to Those We Serve
Our purpose is deeply rooted in the service of others. We dedicate ourselves to understanding and addressing the unique needs of each individual and relationship we encounter. Our approach is compassionate and personalized, ensuring that everyone we assist feels valued, respected, and heard. We strive to be instruments of God’s peace, bringing His healing and reconciliation to all relationships entrusted to us.
Ultimately, Something’s Got to Change exists to reflect Christ’s redemptive love by helping people pursue reconciliation that is lasting, biblical, and rooted in grace.
Ronald C. Zabel, Esq.
Founding Director
& Mediator
Eric Newton
Chief Executive Officer
& Mediator
Lucy Nichols
Outreach & Development Ambassador & Mediator
Nahiroby Olivas
Office/Case Administrator
Our Approach
Grounded in Scripture
Our methods are anchored in biblical teachings, offering a perspective that promotes forgiveness, understanding, and reconciliation. We turn to the Scriptures for guidance and wisdom, ensuring that our practices not only resolve conflicts but also nurture spiritual growth.
Empathetic Listening and Understanding
The cornerstone of our process is a deep, empathetic understanding of each participant’s situation and feelings. We listen attentively, acknowledging the complexities and emotional depths of each circumstance, ensuring that everyone feels heard and respected.
Balanced Team Approach
In situations involving marital and family relationships, we utilize a unique male/female team of conciliators. This balanced approach ensures diverse perspectives and fosters a more comprehensive understanding of the issues at hand, providing a well-rounded pathway to resolution.
Personalized Guidance and Coaching
Each journey of conciliation is tailored to the specific needs of the participants. We offer individual coaching sessions and thoughtful homework assignments, designed to help uncover root causes and personal contributions to the conflict, preparing participants for meaningful reconciliation.
Facilitating Collaborative Solutions
Our role is to facilitate, guide, and support, not to dictate solutions. Participants are encouraged to actively engage in the process, making their own decisions, and finding common ground. This collaborative process leads to more sustainable and heartfelt resolutions.
Commitment to Ongoing Support
We believe that reconciliation is a journey, not a destination. Our support extends beyond the resolution of immediate conflicts, providing resources and guidance to foster long-term peace and harmony in relationships.
FAQ's
What is the cost of the full conciliation process?
The journey to peace is unique for each individual, and so is our pricing. Our services are tailored to your specific needs, making the process open-ended. We are committed to supporting you until a resolution is reached. As a non-profit firm, we also offer a sliding scale fee schedule based on family income (subject to verification). For more details, please refer to our cost chart.
How long does the full process take?
Every situation is different, and so is the time it takes to achieve reconciliation. The duration depends on the complexity of the issues and the willingness of the participants to engage in the process.
Can we determine if conciliation will be effective before starting?
Every case is unique, and effectiveness largely depends on the participants’ willingness to engage in the process. We offer a complimentary 30-minute consultation to discuss the potential for conciliation in your situation.
How successful is Something’s Got to Change in conciliation?
We provide a framework for peace, but the success depends on the participants’ commitment to work toward their goals under the guidance of the Holy Spirit and to practice them in their daily lives.
Do we need to travel to your office for the process?
We offer flexibility in our sessions. You can choose to meet us in person at our Fairfax, VA office, we can conduct sessions virtually via Zoom, or even combine both approaches.
Are your conciliators equipped to handle cases involving abuse?
We are a trauma informed ministry. While we are prepared to handle various situations, not all cases are suitable for conciliation. Our trained Christ-centered conciliators will assess each case to determine the most appropriate course of action. We believe participants should be able to make their own decisions. If participants are not able to do so, the circumstances may not be suitable for conciliation.
